hi Mukhtar, my son born October 31, 2003 at 1:31 am cst is attend 2 schools, 1 is private and 1 public. His teacher thinks he may be autistic, and we are very worried, what can we do according to bazi, purple astrology and feng shui?
my sincere thank yous.

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my birth is august 7, 1963 7 am cst
his dad june 25, 1959 no known time.

Dear Milwaukeespring,

First I will present the meaning of the terms autistic or autism.

“A pervasive developmental disorder characterized by severe deficits in social interaction and communication, by an extremely limited range of activities and interests, and often by the presence of repetitive, stereotyped behaviors.” Or
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“a pervasive developmental disorder of children, characterized by impaired communication, excessive rigidity, and emotional detachment. a tendency to view life in terms of one's own needs and desires.”

Now his chart as per four pillars or Ba zi

DOB…….Hour……………Day…………….Month………….....Year
HS……..Yin metal……Yin fire………..Yang water…….Yin water

EB……...Yin earth……….Yin earth………Yang earth…….Yin earth
Sign……....Ox……………....Ox…………….....Dog……………...Sheep

His element balance
Wood....Fire.....Earth...Metal...Water
1...........18.........39.......25........17

Here you can see that Earth element is having highest value 39 % (Unlucky element)
Here you can see that Wood element is having lowest value 1 % (lucky element)

In the HS section (heavenly stem) you can see in the Hour pillar is Yin metal which exhausts fire (Fire has to put in to much hard work to liquefy metal - Unsupportive) Hour pillar represent children or son to day pillar – Yin fire.

In the HS section (heavenly stem) you can see in the Month pillar is Yang water which extinguishes fire (Fire is extinguished by water - Unsupportive) Month pillar represents parents or Father to day pillar – Yin fire

In the HS section (heavenly stem) you can see in the year pillar is Yin water which extinguishes fire (Fire is extinguished by water - Unsupportive) Year pillar represents Grandparents or Grandfather to day pillar – Yin fire

In the heavenly stem section you can see that the self element Yin fire is not supported.

Understanding the Earthly branches of the chart.
In the lower section of the chart EB (Earthly branches) you can see that all four stem elements are again earth which is also unfavorable to him as earth is also the highest value element Unlucky) and also earth reduces the heat of fire. (Example: - Sand is used to extinguish fire if water is unavailable.)

2 Yin earth and 1 Yang earth in the chart represents self punishment.

Here he has excess of earth which brings in these qualities: -
Good at planning and decisions when facing problems. Speaks nicely but behaves differently and full of stubbornness.

His decade periods
7 to 16……..HS…..Yin metal…….....EB………Yin metal
17 to 26……HS…..Yang metal …....EB……….Yang metal.
27 to 36……HS…...Yin earth…….....EB……….Yin earth
37 to 46……HS…..Yang earth ….....EB……….Yang fire.
47 to 56……HS…..Yin fire …..…......EB……….Yin fire
57 to 66……HS…..Yang fire……......EB……….Yang earth.
67 to 76……HS…..Yin wood ….......EB……….Yin wood.
77 to 86……HS…..Yang wood ….....EB……….Yang wood.

Here you can see that in each decade period in the heavenly stems (HS) and Earthly branches (EB) of 7-16, 17-26, 27 – 36, 67 – 76 and 77 - 86 the same element appear in both section..
Whenever you have the same element in both sections you do a lot of silly things in that period.

The child might be supported financially by parents but his action and behavior might irritate them. This behavior pattern causes those around him including parents to keep away from him.

Now what the child needs is not financial support but friendly environment support. He needs that his father, mother and others to talk with him a most friendly nature which might help him to express himself more frankly. If he does not get this kind of environment he gets drifted into his own world of imagination and will get less in contact with people and feel isolated and finally this might become his character of liking solitude.

Please rather than scold him for every small mistakes, better try to understand him and speak sweetly with him and create a friendly nature so that he learns to express his thoughts and gets out of the boundary of autism. Here we are dealing with person’s behavior and autism is not a disease but malfunctioning of the nervous system. This person needs to cared softly.

The person's year sign is Sheep with makes him a quiet but moody person.

The next step is to check the sleeping directions of child and the room which deals with 8 mansion method and flying stars.

See that the child sleeps with his head in Northeast direction and legs in Southwest as per the compass. (The health direction as per feng shui)

We have also to see whether the sector in which he sleeps is having good stars or not, or favors him and for this I will provide you a link which really has some good article on how to find the facings of a house, go through it. and write back again.

In flyingstars the door is mostly not taken into consideration except in some cases.

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Please read this article and try to understand the facing side and how to find the facing degrees

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Don’t get upset. God is Great.

Please post this question in the purple star astrology section in this same forum as New post. Mr Vilas who is very good at Purple star astrology will help analyse your question by another method. Please keep in touch with both sections.


Regards
Mukhtar